Sunday, January 17, 2010

Sand and Stone

An illustrative friendship story about a walk through the desert, which tests the strength of their friendship.


During some point of the journey, they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, he wrote in the sand:

Today my best friend slapped me in the face.

They kept on walking, until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but his friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone:

Today my best friend saved my life.

The friend, who had slapped and saved his best friend, asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand, and now, you write on a stone, why?"

The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it down in sand, where the winds of forgiveness can erase it away, but when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.

Learn to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your blessings in stone.
                          Time Pass Sms                                                                                    


(1) 1 Good News …!!!

1 good news…!!!
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(2) Tha Biggest Suspens Of Life Is

Tha Biggest SusPensE of Lif izZ

Is Still a SuspensE :p


(3) Bahar Ao Main Tmhary Ghar K Bahar Khara Ho

Bahar ao main tmhary ghar k bahar khara hoon


Esa keh k dosto ko tang nahi karna chahiye.


(4) Plz , Plz , Please

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(6) Mujh Me Aur Aap Me Smart Koun Hai ??

Mujh Me Aur Aap Me Smart Koun Hai??
Guess?…

Maine Guess Karne Ko Kaha….

Press Karne Ko Nahi.


(7)  Magr Mera Sms Kahan Hai ?

Magr mera sMs kahan hai?by Maratuea in December 26th, 2008 Time Pass SMS Tags: Time Pass SMS“LARI Adda”

Note Bord..>
sms yahan se 10 MEEl DOor Hai.

9 Miles,

8 miles,

7 miles,

Aray kahan hai sms?

Bus thora hi door hai..!

6 mILES,

5 miles,

4 miles,

Bus yahan se thora sa Right ho jaien. .!

Sms aanay hi wala hai. . .!

3 Miles.

2 miles,

1 mile,

-FINISHED-

Oh Thank GOD .

Magr mera sMs kahan hai?

Bhai wo to Ap ko Lari aDDAy per hi milay ga.


(8) We Know That

We know that
-6 = -6
And
9-15 = 4-10
Add 25/4 2 both sides
9+25/4-15 = 4+25/4-10
We knw that
” ['a' square - 2ab + 'b' square] = (a-b)square ”
So here, 4 left hand side,
a=3, b=5/2
And
4 right hnd side,
a=2, b=5/2
Put these values in eq.
Expres that eq as:
(3 - 5/2) (3 - 5/2) = (2-5/2) (2-5/2)
Taking square root of both sides,
3 - 5/2 = 2 - 5/2
=> 3=2
Amazing na!:->>@

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(9) Ek Kasaai Bakra Kaat Raha Tha

Ek kasaai bakra kaat raha tha

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Konsi nai baat hai

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(10) Meri Saadgi Dekhen

Meri saadgi dekhen

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Kitna “Saada” sms kiya hai.


(11) Main Aur Meri Tanhai

Main aur meri tanhaahi aksar ye baatien kya krte hain.
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Dhoom machaale
Dhoom machaale


(12) If U R Going Through Hell Then ???

If U R Going Through HELL Then ???

Then ??

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Then ??



Keep Going . . . . ;->


(13) Feeling Sad ?

Feeling Sad?

Then Imagine
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Im Wid U

Now U Happy?

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Chal Fer DAFFA Ho . . . . . . . ["!"]


(14) Kal Kal Ha

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Kal kal hai
aur ajj ajj ha…


(15) Aurr Jigrr. . . . . . ?

Aurr jigrr. . . . . . ?

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Insano mein kidhar . . . ?? :-p


(16) 1 Raja Tha Wo

1 Raja Tha Wo
Itna Khoobsurat Tha

Itna

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Us Ko Nazar Lag Gayi Aur

Wo Mar Gaya…;->


(17) Aaj Ki Taza Khabar

aaj ki Taza khabar
aaj ki Taza khabar
aaj ki Taza khabar
aaj ki Taza khabar
aaj ki Taza khabar
aaj ki Taza khabar

Pata chalay tu Mujhay bhe Batana…….;->


(18) Are You Free Now

Are u free now Whn u get time call me.I need 2talk 2u abt somethng personal?

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Arabian sea is for sale…Shall we both buy it
   Sad Sms
        
                                                                                                    
(1) Dil Dukhany Ki Aadat Nahi Hy

ay kya gila karain hum

shikwa dil main basany ki aadat nahi hay

tumhain keh ker nibhany ki aadat nahi hay

or hamain dil dukhany ki aadat nahi hy..


(2) Dastan Sunate To Mehfil Ko Rula Dete

Koe mila hi nahi jis ko wafa date.
Her ik ne dokha diya kis kis ko saza dete.

ye humara zarf tha k khamosh rahe
dastan sunate to mehfil ko rula dete.


(3) Teri Yaad Me Pal Pal Marta Ha Koi

Teri Yaad Me Pal Pal Marta Ha Koi

Har Saans K Sath Tjhe Yaad Karta Ha Koi

Fursat Mile To Tanhai Me Sochana

Kitni Khamosh Muhabat Tumse Karta Ha Koi


(4) Hadd Se Zyada

Aaj yeh tanhai ka ehsaas kuch hadd se zyada hai,
tere sang na hone ka malaal kuch hadd se zyada hai.

phir bhi kaat rahe yeh jiye jane ki saza yehi sochkar,
shayad is zindagani mein mere gunaah kuch hadd se zyada hai.

 
(5) Anything..You Interpret To A Lie

I really dont know what to say
Nothing I guess
Because anything that comes out of my mind,
you interpret to a lie
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thanks for trusting me


(6) We Have Known Sadness

We enjoy warmth because we have been cold.
We appreciate light because we have been in darkness.
By the same token,
we can experience joy because we have known sadness.


(7) Tanhai Jub Muqaddar Mein Likhi Ha

Tanhai jub muqaddar mein likhi hai,
To kia shikayat apnon aur bayganon se,

Hum mit gaye jin ki chahat main,
Woh baaz nahin aatay hamain azmanay se


(8) Agarche Do Kinaron Ka…

agarche do kinaron ka sangam nhi hota,
magar ek sath chalna b koi kam nhi hata;

wo ankhain ek luta ghar hain jehan aansu nahi rehte,
wo dil ek pathar hai jis dil main kisi ka gham nahi hota,


(9) Dil Ki Dharkanoo Ko

Dil Ki Dharkanoo Ko ik lamha saber nahi,
Shayd k us ko ab meri kader nahi,

Her safer mein mera kabhi hamsafer tha woh,
Ab safer to hai mager wo hamsafer nahi..!


(10) Sun Liya Hum Ne

Sun liya hum ne faisla tera
Aur sun ker udaas ho baithey

Zehan chup chaap ankh khaali
Jaisey hum kianaat kho baithey


(11) Hazaroon Sitaron May Tanha

Aagar mere yaad aye to
ek Chand ko dekh lena
ye soch k nahi k kubsoorat hi kitna
ye soch kar k
hazaroon sitaron may tanha hai kitna

From A Friend To A Friend

1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in someway.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.

4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

6. You mean the world to someone.

7. If not for you, someone may not be living.

8. You are special and unique.

9. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves you.

10. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.

11. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

12. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself, probably, sooner or later, you will get it.

13. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

14. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know.

15. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.


"For every ending there's a new beginning; for every memory there's a dream ahead."

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Saturday, January 02, 2010

How To Be Happy

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?
Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D. Souza. He said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin—real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life".
This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one.
So...stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, or until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

Thought for the day:
Work like you don't need money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no one's watching.

From A Friend To A Friend

1. At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you in someway.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.

4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

6. You mean the world to someone.

7. If not for you, someone may not be living.

8. You are special and unique.

9. Someone that you don't even know exists, loves you.

10. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.

11. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

12. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself, probably, sooner or later, you will get it.

13. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

14. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know.

15. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.


"For every ending there's a new beginning; for every memory there's a dream ahead."

Relationship Advice From A Romantic Guy



Thoughtful Advice On Love, Romance And Relationships

I Love My Former Girlfriend
Prerit Asks How Long Should He Wait For His Former Girlfriend

Prerit asks:
I am in love with my former girlfriend. Our romantic relationship lasted five months. They were the best five months of my life. Besides being my girlfriend, she was also my best friend. I shared everything with her. She loved me like crazy. She always used to say that I distracted her from her studies because she was always thinking about me.

One day, I didn't trust her enough and I followed her when she went to see a movie with a male friend. She told me about him. He is just a friend, but I was still angry that she didn't tell me that she was going to see a movie with him. As she came out of the theater, I lost my temper and I started yelling at my girlfriend in front of everyone. She said that if I can't trust her, we can't have a romantic relationship. We broke up and it was the worst day of my life.

That was three months ago and the friendship between us is as strong as ever. We still share with each other every small detail of our lives. I still comfort her when she is upset. Besides her family, I am still the most important person in her life. In one way or another, she always says that she needs me.

The problem is that she doesn’t want to be romantically involved with me but she can't give me a reason why? I still love her like crazy. I know there's something in her heart for me, but she doesn’t want to show it.

I thought her reason could be that she wants to concentrate on her studies. I told her I can wait until she completes her studies, but she doesn’t say anything.

Should I wait for her to come around? If so, how long should I wait?
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Dear Prerit,
I think you know you made a HUGE mistake when you followed your girlfriend and when you yelled at her in front of everyone. That incident could forever end any chance of you again having a romantic relationship with her. I think for you two to have any chance of getting back together, she needs to be able to forgive you. To help her get to that place, you need to make it crystal clear to her that you know you messed up and how very sorry you are about how you acted that day.

Here is what I think you should do:
1. You need to admit to your former girlfriend that you were wrong and apologize for your behavior that day. Here is what you could say:
I am very sorry about the incident at the movie theater. I was wrong and I know I royally messed things up between us. I am sorry that I didn't trust you enough that day. You did nothing to deserve that. I am sorry I lost my temper and yelled at you in front of everyone. You did nothing to deserve that. I love you and you deserved better from me. I wish with all my heart that I could change that day, but I can't. What I can do is to let you know how very sorry I am.
Notice there is no groveling. There is no begging for forgiveness. There is no mention of restoring your romantic relationship. It is only admitting you were wrong and apologizing to your former girlfriend for your behavior.

2. Every time the incident at the movie theater is brought up, you need to tell your former girlfriend all over again how sorry you are.

3. You should wait for your former girlfriend to fully appreciate how sorry you are about the incident and for her to forgive you. How long will that take? It depends how upset your former girlfriend was. It could be months. What if she never forgives you? Then I think you need to move on with your life. You will never have the relationship you want with her if she is incapable of forgiving you when (not if) you mess up.

I hope you have spent the last three months letting your former girlfriend know how badly you feel about that day. If she has forgiven you, I would wait a month or two before you try to explore the possibility of reestablishing your romantic relationship.

Something you should consider is that just because your former girlfriend forgives you does not mean that the friends and family members that she told the story to have forgiven you. They can be a huge obstacle to the two of you resuming your romantic relationship. What can you do about it? Probably nothing, but you should keep in mind that it might be something that is holding her back.

The next thing to consider is, what are you looking for in life? Where do you want to live? What job do you want? When (or if) you want to get married? How many children do you want? And where does a woman fit into your hopes and dreams? What kind of woman would be the best partner for you in life? From your letter, it sounds like one of the things you want is a relationship with a woman that is not only your girlfriend, but also your friend.

Now, look at where you are in life. You are not her boyfriend, but you are also not completely out of her life. You are stuck in limbo with this woman. You are not getting the affection that you want from her and not moving toward finding that with another woman. It is not what you hoped for or planned for your life.

From her side, she has you as a friend and companion without having to be your girlfriend. While that may be working for her, it clearly isn't working for you.

The next step is to sit down with your former girlfriend and have a heart-to-heart talk. Tell her what a sad time the last few months have been for you. Tell her of your sorrow for causing the break up. Apologize again for the way you acted. Tell her how you miss the happy times you had as a couple. Tell her you missed being loved by her. Tell her you want a woman in your life that is not only your girlfriend, but also your best friend. Then, tell her you want her to be that woman in your life again...

Once you have said all that, stop talking and listen to what she has to say. If she says, she wants that too, then the two of you might discuss how you can slowly reestablish your romantic relationship.

If she tells you she is not ready for that or that is not what she wants right now, she is telling you, at least at this point in her life, she isn't the woman you are looking for. I would tell her that if she does not want to be your best friend as well as your girlfriend, then you need to find a woman that wants to be both for you.

In a very gentle way, you are telling your former girlfriend that you need to move on with your life. When she hears that, she might reconsider her choice right then, she might reconsider in a few days. Either way, you have put her on notice that she can't put you on hold forever. She either wants a romantic relationship with you or you need to find a woman that does. It is a fairly gentle way to force her hand and require her to make a choice.

So my bottom line answers are:

1. Should I wait for your former girlfriend to come around?
It seems to me that you have a lot emotionally invested in this woman. I think it would make sense to see if you can work things out with her.

2. How long should I wait?
If you can't patch up your romantic relationship within six months after the break up, I would start the process of moving on with your life.

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