Saturday, November 28, 2009

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Friday, November 27, 2009

Famous Love Sayings

Love Sayings

Love is an emotion or a unique feeling that cannot be defined in words. It makes everyone move forward in life, how much difficult the path may be. Love-sayings truly fills our heart and is our best choice to please our beloved whatever the occasion may be, be it Valentine’s day, a day-out with your beloved, a simple marriage proposal or a special day to bring a smile on your beloved’s pretty face.

Just by a few love-sayings, you can find the reaction on your beloved’s face. Even if you are passing through a tough time with your beloved and want to him/her, a wonderful love-saying can do miracles. Particularly during these difficult times, love-sayings make your beloved feel treasured and special.

So just add cupid magic to your love life and choose a love-saying and express your feelings and never-ending love for your soulmate from the core of your heart.


Symbols of Love


 Love Symbols
• Love symbols, the very word that reminds us of shape of heart. Thus, love symbols are great way in expressing your love. Other than heart shape, there are series of love symbols are available. There is one interesting aspect about the love symbols that you should know. Every civilization and country has its own types of love symbols and they carry significant meaning of their own. Thus, symbols can say a lot about your feelings and can convey your message to the special person of your life.

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Artical-Friendship


Beautiful Friendship Flower

The park bench was deserted as I sat down to read
Beneath the long, straggly branches of an old willow tree.
Disillusioned by life with good reason to frown,
For the world was intent on dragging me down.
And if that weren't enough to ruin my day,
A young boy out of breath approached me, all tired from play.
He stood right before me with his head tilted down
And said with great excitement, "Look what I found!"
In his hand was a flower, and what a pitiful sight,
With its petals all worn - too little rain, too little light.
Wanting him to take his dead flower and go off to play,
I faked a small smile and then shifted away.
But instead of retreating he sat next to my side
And placed the flower to his nose and declared with surprise,
"It sure smells pretty and it's beautiful, too.
That's why I picked it; here - it's for you."
The weed before me was dying or dead,
Not vibrant of colors, orange, yellow or red.
But I knew I must take it, or he might never leave.
So I reached for the flower, and replied, "Just what I need."
But instead of him placing the flower in my hand,
He held it midair without reason or plan.
It was then that I noticed for the very first time
That weed-toting boy could not see; he was blind.
I heard my voice quiver, tears shone like the sun
As I thanked him for picking the very best one.
"You're welcome," he smiled, and then ran off to play,
Unaware of the impact he'd had on my day.
I sat there and wondered how he managed to see
A self-pitying woman beneath an old willow tree.
How did he know of my self-indulged plight?
Perhaps from his heart, ... blessed with true sight.
Through the eyes of a blind child, at last I could see
The problem was not with the world; the problem was me.
And for all of those times I myself had been blind,
I vowed to see the beauty in life, and appreciate every second that's mine.
And then I held that wilted flower up to my nose
And breathed in the fragrance of a beautiful rose
And smiled as I watched that young boy, another weed in his hand
About to change the life of an unsuspecting old man.

Love Poem

Love Poem

A Special World

A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.

- Sheelagh Lennon -
_________

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

I Love - A Romantic Game For Couples

I Love - A Romantic Game For Couples
When you have a quiet moment alone with your sweetheart, try a romantic game that I call I Love. I Love involves focusing on the wonderful things about your partner and your relationship. Here is a very abbreviated example:

Jane: I love when you snuggle up with me on the couch.
Jack: I love being close to you.
Jane: I love when you snuggle up to me from behind.
Jack: I love holding you in my arms.
Jane: I love when you reach out to hold hands.
Jack: I love how you greet me at the front door with a kiss when I come home from work.
Jane: I love all the love notes that you leave me.
Jack: I love to romance you.
Jane: I love your enthusiasm when you play with the kids.
Jack: I love how loving and patient you are with the kids.
Jane: I love that you are such a loving husband and father.
Jack: I love the life we have built together.
Jane: I love you.
Jack: I love you too, Sweetheart.

The romantic game I Love involves taking turns expressing your tender love and devotion to one another. The key to the game is to share from the heart and be completely authentic. You don’t need to exaggerate anything, just tell your sweetheart what you truly love about them.

I Love is best played when you and your partner can adoringly look into each other’s eyes. You can play it at a restaurant after a wonderful dinner together. You can play it while snuggling close in front of a fire. If you’re sitting apart from one another in the living room, playing I Love is a great way to get an invitation to come a little closer. I Love can be played anytime you are alone and can concentrate on one another.

Playing the romantic game I Love is a wonderful way to share your love with your partner. It is a great way to build love, stir desire and ignite passion in your relationship.


Online Dating - Meeting A Man For The First Time

Online Dating - Meeting A Man For The First Time
You started online dating to meet a man. Now it is time to meet your online match for the first time. Meeting a man in a comfortable environment will give you the best chance to relax while you explore the romantic possibilities.


Meet As Friends
When it comes time to meet your online match in person, meet as friends. Don’t go to your first meeting with the idea in your mind that he is The One or might be The One. That puts way too much pressure on your first meeting.


Meet At An Agreed Place
When you are ready to meet your online match, suggest meeting on the weekend. Meeting for lunch, coffee or dessert all work well since none implies huge expectations. You might ask for a few suggestions, but I think you should select the place to meet. This allows you to choose a place where you will feel comfortable. Unless one of you is driving a long distance, I would try to make the first meeting fairly short. Just like with the first phone call, you want to leave him wanting more.


Go Dutch
Since you will be of meeting as friends, suggest going Dutch on your first meeting. That my help avoid an awkward situation. If he offers to pay, you can always accept his nice offer. Either way, there will be clarity on the issue.


Dress Casual
I would suggest you discuss with your online match dressing casual for your first meeting. I think that helps everyone to keep their expectations in check and promotes a friendly, comfortable environment to explore the possibilities for romance. Your focus should be on one another, not the clothes that you each are wearing.


Discuss How You Will Greet One Another
To avoid an awkward situation, I would recommend you mention how you would like to greet one another when you first meet. You may feel comfortable greeting him with a big friendly hug. You may decide you would be more comfortable waiting until you say goodbye. Discussing the issue beforehand will insure there are no hurt feelings or misunderstandings.


Tell A Friend
For the first few times you plan to meet one of your matches, tell a friend who you are meeting, where you are meeting, when you are meeting, what is planned for the date and when you will call her back with all the juicy details.


Have Fun
When you finally meet for the your online match, relax, be yourself and have a good time. Remember, there is nothing prettier on a woman than a smile.


Send An E-Mail After Your First Meeting
If you had a successful first meeting, before you go to bed, send him a short e-mail saying that you enjoyed meeting him in person. It is a nice way to gently let him know that you are interested and worth pursuing.


Transitioning To A Real World Relationship
Meeting your online match for the first time is a big step in transitioning you from an online/phone relationship to one in the real world. It still may be awhile before you feel comfortable enough to give him your phone number so that he can call or your address so he can pick you up for a date. I would suggest you open yourself up to him at the rate you feel comfortable. If he is a quality guy, he will be patient and understanding.

Many Kinds of Love

Many Kinds of Love


The word love has confused people from the beginning of time. This article is the sharing of what one person learned about it from living.
Ideally, we find Romantic love between one man and one woman. We write poetry about it. It may end beautifully or tragically. We get to know each other in order to form a lasting and mutual relationship. We can find an example of a romantic love in marriages that last even into old age. Most marriages start out with romantic love, but only the strongest are those that last. Successful marriages developed into quite a different kind of love.
Lustful love usually ends up hurting someone. It’s the one mentioned in the Bible with David and Bathsheba. David sent Uriah into full account of the battle so he would die. Lustful love is the kind that ruins lives and reputations. We find it in adultery and fornication. It cares only about sex. Now I do not want to hurt anyone. I just want to expose a very dangerous happening that we falsely called love.
Selfish love cannot be legitimate, unless it comes from the Almighty. People are not perfect enough for it and so we cannot demand it. God insists on it for Himself. He wants our whole devotion so we can live a high-quality life. You see He wants the best for us. The Bible is about His selfish love, and only He can require it. There is nothing greater than this love. If we give unselfish love to Him, we will live as Christ lived. This is probably beyond our abilities. That is why Christ died for our sins.
Friendship love is a caring love. Ideally, we find it everywhere. Found in all peaceful relationships. We find it between all kinds of people and even between people and animals. It is a special love that has no demands or conditions. We all should form one with each other. It is what Jonathan had for David, while Saul was trying to kill David in a jealous rage. We find it in the commandments and in the second greatest commandment ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ (Found in Matthew 22:37-40.)
Smothering love is the kind that demands constant attention. One will not let another have a life. We see it when one person wants to tie him self or her self to another human being and will not let them out of their sight. It seems like harassment. It comes from a very needy person, one who has not resolved issues, especially childhood abandonment and neglect. These people need professional help and prayer. Be kind but firm with them. Abuse only makes this kind of love worse. These persons have already suffered too much. Smothering love is not hopeless if the person can accept Biblical instruction and/or proper professional help.
Tough love is a love needed to bring up a child into a psychologically healthy adult. It lets child learn from his or her mistakes, and they have us as shoulders to lean on and to give them support. It is an unconditional love. It is the kind of love given by the Almighty, when we mess up. We find it in the New Testament. Jesus showed us this love by example.
Childish love is what children have for their parents. It is a needy love, but we cannot compare it with smothering love. Childish love can become independent and strong. Strength lives there that we cannot find in the other. It only needs awakened and developed through example, nurturing, and instruction, and as the child matures, he or she develops an unconditional love for others.
Unrequited love was what Christ had when He died for our sins. We find it in some broken marriages, the prodigal son or daughter, and in one-way friendship. It, like lustful love, is hurtful. Only here, we see a victim, the one who offers unconditional love and does not receive it.
Popularity love is gained with the promise that with associating with that person, you will profit. We call them fair weather friends. He or she soon disappears when life has given the love one a few hardships. Peter had this kind of love, when he denied Christ three times. Thankfully, he overcame it and developed agape love. If he had not, we would not be reading first and second Peter in the New Testament.
Godly love is a perfect love. It is the love that is willing to go so far as to give up ones' life for another. Very few people can attain such love. It is all that is good in all the other loves. Most of the disciples attained it. Others have attained it, but only God knows who all of them are.
Now, you are probably wondering who I am. Am I qualified to write about such a subject as love? I have lived a long life, worked thirty years, was a teacher and now I am a retired one. I am a sister, a wife, a friend, and a daughter. I grew up with parents whose parents abused and neglected them. Their homes became battlegrounds. Their parents passed them off to different children's homes, brought them back when they were old enough to work. The children either ran away or were locked out of their homes. I observed the result of these various kinds of love first hand in my parents’ lives and in the lives of some of the children that I have taught. I have also studied God’s love and have seen it demonstrated within religious organizations. Some split or destroy their reputation by ruining the lives of the innocent and by causing heartache and discouragement. However, some do demonstrate Godly love, by building up, bringing growth and peace, and by encouraging their members to live agape love.



Monday, November 23, 2009

Two Keys to a Happy Marriage

Two Keys to a Happy Marriage
by Kevin Miller


Almost every marriage starts out as a huge celebration. Together with their family and friends, each couple is full of hopes and dreams for their future life together. But the road to a happy marriage is far from easy. And as today’s divorce statistics demonstrate all too well, many couples opt not to complete the journey.
It would be easy to blame our high rate of marital failure on things like not spending enough quality time together, allowing bitterness and resentment to build in our hearts and failing to keep communication lines open. There’s no end to books, articles and seminars that tell you how to improve these and many other aspects of your relationship. But while quality time, forgiveness and communication are vitally important to creating a happy marriage, if such things aren’t happening, it’s usually a sign of a much deeper problem. And until this problem is addressed, no amount of external behavior modification will work.
To get a hint of what this deeper issue might be, let’s take a look at the following Scripture passage:
One of them, an expert in the law, tested him [Jesus] with this question: "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?"
Jesus replied: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments." (Matthew 22:35-40)
I believe that virtually every marital problem can be traced back to one or both partners failing to abide by these two laws. The same is true of any relationship. The minute we begin to focus on our own wants and needs over those of God or our partner; we’re destined for trouble.
Experiencing communication problems in your marriage? How often do you really focus on listening to what your partner (or God) has to say instead of insisting on more airtime? Feeling bitterness and resentment growing toward your partner? When was the last time you brought him or her before the Lord in prayer and truly thanked God for your relationship? Struggling to find quality time together? How about praying with your partner and asking God how he would like you to use your time?
As you begin to do these things, you’ll notice that your focus automatically starts to shift away from you and your desires and over to God and your partner. As a result, communication problems begin to improve, anger and resentment fade away and you naturally want to spend more time together. Of course, you can’t expect such changes to happen overnight. Your relationship is also bound to face financial pressures, childrearing issues and other problems that are beyond your control. But if you commit your relationship to God and make a conscious decision each day to put God and your partner first, your marriage will be able to weather any storm. Not only that; you’ll also have plenty of fun together along the way!
Have you struggled to find happiness in your marriage? Perhaps it’s time you and your spouse invited God to direct your relationship. If you would like to do so, we encourage you to pray the following:
"Dear God, thank you so much for bringing us together as a couple. We know that you have a plan and a purpose for our marriage, and we invite you to forgive the past self-centeredness, come into our lives and relationship and direct our steps from now on. Please give us the grace to put you and each other first every day. Make our relationship a blessing to others. But most of all; make it a blessing to you. Amen."

I Identify With You Child!

How you can feel your Child just before her/his born

I Identify With You Child!


 

I am yet to talk to you my child
I am yet to ask you how you feel
Inside the mortal shell of impermanence
Your papa says he has already felt your rhythms,
The heart beats of the soul that is YOU,
In his meditation
What does it mean, child?
Are my maternal instincts not pure and strong
In the true sense of the word?
Can I not sense you, your soul, as it lies
Waiting to emerge into a world as strange
And draining like the fleshy interiors of
Your mother’s womb?
I feel at loss to fathom your state,
Your aspirations of a previous birth
Who you were then, why you came to me now,
I am truly lost my dear, in the mire of living
A life I am yet to discover,
Are you confused and miserable too, trying
To wonder the goal of your existence?
that’s some solace,
At least we seem to identify with something!
(When you are pregnant for the first time, a plethora of thoughts plague your mind and you wonder about your state and that of your yet to be born child. Sometimes, even negative thoughts can enter your mind stealthily as this is an experience that you are going through for the very first time. Like the unsteady steps of a child you wonder what this is all about. Emotions of insecurity, joy, frustration, happiness-everything positive and negative come rushing towards you. Of course, with God’s grace, everything ends well and very soon you forget all that you felt just by looking at a part of you!)

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Winter Come Again!!

Winter Come Again!!



With the winter setting in, it is indeed time for us to seek our winter remedies.The cold and the strong winds that we have here, especially make our skin and hair dry and patchy.But this is also the best time to repair and rejuvenate our health.
When it comes to harsh weather, I always follow my grandma’s wisdom.She always advised me to stay with nature when it comes to protecting oneself from its harsh elements. What I’m talking about is finding the cure from nature itself.Cosmetics will also help but I find a more complete care in being more natural , and what more, it has no side effects and the cost is also almost nil.I’m not talking about herbal products,my skin is especially sensitive to harsh climates and I did rather pick my solutions with no bar codes and expiry dates.
Oil has to be an essential ingredient in our skin/hair care during these times.We have medicinal oils like nalpamaradhi enna,kottumchukadhi thailam etc that are loaded with medicinal values and are also comfortable in price.True ayurvedic oils don’t have expiry dates and oils like the ones I mentioned above ,soothes your skin especially after a warm bath. It is best to avoid using soaps during such harsh climate and in turn one could use gram flour , a natural scrub. To remove tan it is best to put a pack of yogurt and gram flour taking special care not to let it dry.
It would be best if one trims the split-ends of the hair and thus be prepared for the winter. Split-ends otherwise would damage the hair all the more during winter. It is best advised to oil the tips and the scalp of the hair.Using natural shampoos like crushed hibiscus leaves and flowers is very good for the hair and scalp . It is a great shampoo, and even lathers! And it is also a good conditioner.Using hair oils like neelabringadhi, kanjuniyadi, dhurdurapathradhi is also best advised. These oils are a one word cure for almost all ailments associated with hair and scalp.In winter one must provide extra care to the scalp and always see to it that the skin in the scalp in never dry.
Get back to nature for a full cure ..it is effective,natural and pleasing to one’s pocket ….Happy winter & Happy skin and hair care!



Listen to your Inner Voice

Listen to your Inner Voice



Always be the first rate version of yourself rather than the second rate version of someone else. You will be successful only if you listen to your heart. Many successful people in life have done this. Unfazed by their past and unfazed by their future, they did what their heart sanctioned. Thus they sought what they really wanted. Do what is you! Anything else will be suicide of your soul.
There are movies, people, ads and voices telling you what you must be and how you must live to fit in. But you don’t need this glove. You must find out what are you? Find out people whom you love and who genuinely love you. Earn money, fulfill your wishes and needs, honor God and die peacefully.
Remember, God has his hand on your head. You are insured. Just believe in Him. You must take risks and get what you want. If not now, when are you going to seize your happiness? Follow the sign of God as his hand and he will take you to your dream destination. For years, I was doing things that never ever touched me. Saying no was not difficult. But finding out what I really wanted to do was difficult. Today I am doing what I always wanted to do.
Life itself is a proper binge. Don’t get confused. If you want to have a cake and keep it too then bake two. There is always a conflict in our hearts. And that is between what we are and what we are expected to be. And sometimes, we choose the comfort of the other role. And then we blame that we never got a chance. But you never think about the options. You have right to move out of dead jobs, dead relationships. You could have died last night. But you are alive this morning so that you can do something different. Be loyal to your soul. If morals aren’t being mauled and others aren’t being hurt then nothing should stop you to move ahead. Listen to your inner voice. If we don’t trust our inner voices then whom are we going to trust?

The Principle of Happiness

Chapter One


The Principle of Happiness


The Fourfold Path to Achieving True Happiness


There are numerous ways to become happy, but the kind of happiness I am talking about is not the sort you can enjoy only in this world. It is a joy that carries over from this world to the next. We’re exploring principles of happiness that apply to the past, the present, and the future. The starting point of these principles is willingness to explore Right Mind.
Every individual has a diamond within, and this pure diamond represents Right Mind. The diamond within everyone is essentially the same, the only difference being the level of refinement and the brilliance of the diamond, which is the result of numerous incarnations. Those who make the effort to polish the diamond within become angels of light. So if you continue to refine your inner diamond, it will surely shine.
To make your diamond shine brightly, you must put forth constant and tireless efforts. Through daily effort to explore Right Mind, you will develop the spiritual discipline that allows you to discover your true nature and enter the next stage, in which you seek true happiness.


Love


The first principle of happiness is love. This love is not the kind of love that you expect to receive from others. The love that I teach at Happy Science is love that gives. The true nature of love that gives is based on awakening to the fact that all human beings are essentially one with others. Even if you seem to have a personality completely different from anyone around you, your true nature is essentially the same as the true nature of everyone else. This is the basis of true love. It is only because you think you are separate from other people that friction and discord arise. Once we have awakened to the fact that essentially we are all one, we naturally come to love one another. We may have different personalities, but each of us is expected to realize our common spiritual essence while valuing our individuality.
What exactly does it mean to love others? It means wishing for the good of others, and wishing to nurture others without expecting anything in return. It is a selfless love, detached from personal desire. Because your essence and the essence of others is the same, you are required to love others just as you love yourself. It is easy to love ourselves; it’s not something we need to be taught. But unfortunately, once we have been born into a physical body and experience ourselves as separate and distinct, we forget to love others. This is why we need to learn to practice love that gives.


Wisdom


The second principle of happiness is wisdom. It is important to have a correct knowledge of spiritual Truth. Without this knowledge of Truth, human beings cannot be free in the truest sense. Some religions don’t understand this concept. Many dedicated religious people believe that only their particular brand of religion can save people, because they don’t know that Truth can also be found in other religions. Such confusion is very sad. To avoid this, you need to have correct knowledge of the Truth. This is the real meaning of the phrase “The Truth will set you free” (John 8:32).


Reflection


The third principle of happiness is reflection, which is closely related to the cultivation of Right Mind. We are essentially all children of God with brilliantly shining souls. However, just as a diamond accumulates dirt if it is neglected, our souls inevitably collect dust and grime as we live in this world. Our life mission is to refine the soul.
Of course, there may be help from an outside power; it’s like getting help from a specialist, and sometimes we need that help. But instead of doing nothing while waiting for help, we need to get busy polishing our own diamond. If we do not refine ourselves, what is the meaning of practicing spirituality?
During the process of refinement, mistakes sometimes occur. If you realize you’ve made a mistake, who can correct it except you? Although someone else could wash your body, only you can cleanse your soul. Reflection is based on the power of the self to actively accept the challenge of spiritual refinement and improving oneself through one’s own efforts. Reflection helps us to see what needs to be polished. Start by reflecting on your past thoughts and deeds. There’s no point in gold plating rusty metal. If there is rust beneath, the shiny surface will soon peel away.


Progress


Reflection precedes the fourth principle of happiness: progress. Progress is the development of the self, of others, and of society. The ultimate goal is to create a utopia, an ideal world on earth. If people seek progress without the practice of reflection, they will most likely face difficulties before they attain success. Only when you have attained a certain level of enlightenment through the practice of loving and saving others can you advance to the spiritual dimension where there is no darkness, no evil or shadow, only light.
Most people first need to practice reflection in the world of duality, and once they have finished cleansing their souls, they can enter the world where only light exists. It is an undeniable fact that there are distinct levels in the spirit world that correspond to one’s spiritual vibrations and state of mind, and one must progress from one stage to the next. The spirits in the fourth dimension cannot leap straight to the eighth dimension; they first need to attain mastery of the fifth dimension. The spirits in the fifth dimension must first aim to go to the sixth dimension, then to the Bodhisattva Realm of the seventh, then to the Tathagata Realm of the eighth dimension. This is how progress can be achieved on the path of reflection, for without the feeling of making progress, you cannot feel truly happy.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Famous Love Stories » Prince Edward And Wallis Simpson

Prince Edward And Wallis Simpson

One of the love stories that has captivated millions throughout the world to this day is the love affair between Prince Edward and Wallis Simpson. The House of Windsor or the reigning monarchy of United Kingdom lost Prince Edward at the altar of love. With blonde hair and blue eyes, Prince Edward was a remarkably handsome man. Somehow or other, the Prince's taste ran into married women and he had a string of affairs with married women. Wallis Simpson on the other hand was born in a nondescript family of America, she and her mother lived in reduced circumstances after the death of her father when Wallis was an infant. The lady was not beautiful, but her sense of dress and style made her appear distinguished.


Prince Edward was the first monarch who chose to have the luxury of love rather than the pomp, and splendor of the English Court and the worldly advantages of being a monarch. He met Mrs. Simpson at a party and became attracted to her. They met several times after that, and gradually both realized that they are in love. Mrs. Simpson opted for divorce from her second husband. It is pertinent to mention here that she already had been divorced earlier from her first husband Earl Winfield. The Cabinet was gradually becoming very concerned with the peccadilloes of the Prince's private life, and that concern grew not only in the Cabinet, but also in the Opposition parties and Dominions. The government was aghast when it became apparent to everyone that Prince Edward meant to marry Mrs. Simpson.
Prince Edward had no illusions about the non acceptance of Mrs. Simpson as the Queen of Britain. When the time came to make a decision between the Crown and love, he had no hesitation in choosing the latter. He is about the only monarch in the long surviving House of Windsor to have abdicated. Any account of this colorful love story between Prince Edward and Wallis Simpson is a delight to countless people mesmerized by love. To know more on this delightful love story, remain connected to My Dear Valentine.

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    $weet words are ea$y 2 $ay,
    But $weet People like u,
    are dificult 2 find...
    May ur whole life b a$ swt as u...
    $weet Good afternoon

2. When we see our beloved one after a long gap,
     we want to share many things but smile & silents are the first one we share.
     That's real affection...
      good afternoon

3. ISHQ kar deta hai bekarar,
    Bhar deta hai pathar k dil mei pyar,har 1 ko nahi milti zindagi ki yeh bahar,kyunki
    ISHQ ka dusra naam hai INTEZAR.

    GuD AfTeRnOOn

4. Nice friendship is Like The breathing air...
    You Will Never See it... But You Will Always Feel its Presence.
    Gud afternoon.

5. Life iz a magic...
    The beauty of life iz next second.....
     which hides thousands of secrets.
     I wish every second will be wonderful in ur life.
     Good afternoon.

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    *AFTERNOON*
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     a message frm my "HEART" a place where i keep gud frnds
     like"u.wats up miss u so much.

7. Manzil milne se dosti bhulaai
    nahi jaati,
    Hamsafar milne se dosti
    mitaai nahi jati...
    Good Afternoon…
       

Friday, November 20, 2009

Love Test

Love Test


Love is a wonderful emotion between two souls. It is an emotion that cannot be seen or even touched. This wonderful emotion has to be felt from the core of your heart. But being lovers, have you ever checked your compatibility with your partner? Did you test your partner and yourself on certain parameters? If not, then just perform a test to find out how much compatible you are with your partner and how much compatible he/she is with you. These love-tests help you to test the degree of your feelings towards your valentine. You will be really excited by the results.

Love-Test and Love Quizzes


Have a look at some of the love-tests and love quizzes that are available absolutely free of cost over the Internet


* Flames: It is basically a love game which helps you to gain more knowledge on your love life and a lot of questions that revolves in the minds of lovers pertaining to their life partner, years ahead, and compatibility with partner.
* Love Test Online: You can just go for these online love-tests that are available over the Internet by just a click of the mouse and check your compatibility with your partner. There are several love-test portals that allow you to calculate compatibility between you and your beloved. You just need to enter both the names, i.e. your name and your partner’s name and click on the “Submit” button. Immediately you will get the result.
* Love Relationship Test: Love relationship test guides you on what is lacking in your relationship and helps your relationship grow.
* Love Calculator: A love calculator can predict the future and calculate the probability of a healthy and successful relationship between two people just by using the two names.
* Love Match Test: If you want to know whether you and your partner are a perfect match, then this is a test which you can always try out. There are several compatibility tests available over the Internet where couples who are very keen join and check their compatibility by just inputting their names, surnames and gender and get measured on a 1 to 100 scale.
* True Love Quiz: Just refresh your mind and play few love games with quizzes on true love and try to make your days more interesting and meaningful. It is important to know how much your partner knows about you and how much he/she is aware of your tastes and preferences with respect to favorite dishes, color or film. Love quiz is a simple, already tested love-test which helps you get answers to all these things.


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            Friendship  Sms

Light can remove darkness,
   soap can clear dirty,
   prayer can finish your sin,
   routine can maintain your life
   and real friend try best 2 make his friend happy.
 
• Without humor, life sux.
   Without courage, life is hard.
   Without love, life is hopeless.
   Without friends like you, life is impossible!
 
• Friendship is the rainbow between 2 hearts sharing of 7 colors.
   1.LOVE
   2.SADNESS
   3.HAPPINESS
   4.TRUST
   5.FAITH
   6.SECRET
   7.CARE Take Care n Have a nice day:-)
 
• This sms can only be read by someone SMART,
   try again, again, maybe you are.. just not smart??
   one more time. hey don't force it ugly!!!
 
• Medicines and friendship cure our problems. 
   The only difference is that,
   Friendship don't have an expiry date.
 
• I'd love to ask how old you are,
   but unfortunately I know you can't count that high.
 
• A physiological study has proved that
   all the fools, donkeys, monkeys used their thumbs to read the messages
   Don’t change your finger know its too late.
 
• FRIENDSHIP isn't how U forget but how U forgive,
   Not how U listen but how U Understand,
   Not what U see but how U feel,
   and not how U Let Go but how U hold on!!!
 
• A Friendship is Sweet when its NEW..
   Its Sweeter when its TRUE
   But Its Sweetest when the friend is like U.
 
• Hey friend remember that
   without stupidity there can be no wisdom
   and without ugliness there can be no beauty.
   so the world needs YOU after all!
 
• True friends warm the heart,
   make you laugh, smile...yes,
   you are a true friend.
 
• A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.

• Always draw a circle around the ones you love,
   never draw a heart because hearts can be broken,
   but circles are never ending.
 
• It takes a minute to have a crush,
   an hour to like someone,
   and a day to love someone,
    but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

 

Thursday, November 19, 2009

Love Story Of The Month


Love Story Of The Month August  
My Love My Soul
By:
MS Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with you I had no control over....I remember the first day when i saw him in class. He was wearing white shirt and black pant. I just looked at him and was impressed by his personality....... days passed........... and just a hello hi sort of conversation continued. In November he sent me an SMS. I messaged him and asked " who are you". He called me and informed. Then we used to send forwarded messages to each other. Sometimes he used to comment on those messages and i felt very nice. One day he added me on orkut. Daily i used to look at his pics for hours..

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Love Stories
Love Stories
Get yourself in the mood of love! Love has never been smooth sailing and that is why so many love stories are told throughout Man's history. Jump on the bandwagon and read about the internet's best heart wrenching love stories, sweet romantic stories or cute funny love stories submitted by our visitors.

Touching True Love Stories
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Romace Love Movies
Romance Movies
Have you always wanted to find out more about your favourite romantic comedy or movie but is unable to do so? Simply check out our romantic movies database which even include old movies from the 1970s. Details include soundtrack listings, quotes from the movies and much more!

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Love Poems
Love Poems
Expressing your love in fine poetry helps to melt even the coldest heart. Do it right and you gain instant points with the fair lady or fine gentleman. However, doing it the wrong way often results in the opposite effect. Read through the love poems in this section and learn how to express your love the right way!


Love SMS Text Messages


 


Love SMS Text Messages
There is always an sms for every occasion. Regardless of whether it is a simple good morning or a complicated flirty text message, we have what you need! Messaging your loved ones will never be the same again!


Hopeless Romantic




Hopeless Romantic
A special section for the hopelessly romantic. Contains anything and everything that can be romantic. Popular sections include romantic things to do, romantic ideas and romantic gifts for the special person in your life.

Love Quotes
Love Quotes
Everybody have something to say about love. Be it cynical, meaningful, sad, cute or funny. the list goes on. Some quotes may inspire and strengthen your belief about love while other quotes can be treated as cute jokes that reflect the unpleasant parts of love. Either way, the fact this section exist already goes to show love is all around us. So, let your fingers do the clicking and show you what quotes we have to offer!

Love Horoscope




Love Horoscope
Grab your love horoscope at Love Fate Destiny and find out more about specific love and romance traits of the different horoscopes. Also contains information on which horoscopes are your perfect partners in terms of compatibility.
Valentine's Day




Valentine's Day
Stumped for gifts or ideas on Valentine's Day? Fear not! Get yourself prepared for the day dedicated to love by looking through our gifts and ideas suggestion. Special Information on what of flowers and roses mean on this special day.


Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Why People Love Blogger?

We all know that most of the bloggers have now switched to Wordpress.org or better we say a self hosted blog as their blogger platform but still many bloggers use Blogger.com for blogging. Obviously a self hosted blog is much better in terms of SEO, blog ranking e.t.c. But there are few reasons why people love blogger and still use it,
1. Low or Negligible cost: If you are using blogger, then all you need to pay is your Domain name registration charges if you want to use .com .org or any other custom domain name, else it’s free too.
2. No Hosting Charges: Even the hosting in blogger is free of cost plus your site is going to be hosted google servers.
3. Easy to Use: All you need to use blogger is just some basic html knowledge, that’s it.
4. Thousands of free templates: Obviously the default themes of blogger is not that much good as that of wordpress but who cares when you can get thousands of free themes/templates on the net and mostly of them are free of cost, highly customizable and easy to implement.
5. Alternatives for everything: Most of the features aren’t available on blogger but we can find their alternatives easily on the net and the best part of these alternatives is that they are free of cost too.
6. ‘Blogger’ supported by everyone: Being the oldest blogging platform, blogger is now supported by every website that offers widgets, that means you can install these widgets without even using html codes.
7. Integrated with Picasa: With blogger you get a free space to upload 1000MBs of photos on Picasa which is not limited either cuz it is 1000MB per account and you can make as many account as you want
8. Better rank, more Money- Who cares!!: Most of the people don’t write just for the sake of money, they write cuz they love to write, in that case who cares whether your blog is SEO friendly or not.
9. Integrated Adsense: All you need is to enter your adsense account details (at the time of setup) then show these ads wherever you want.
10. Basic Blogging Platform: Most of the people start blogging with blogger just to learn some basics. But after becoming a good blogger they don’t switch to any other platform cuz it’s a big hectic job to do so.
So that was just the basic comparison, at the end everyone has his own choice. So which is your favorite blogger platform?



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Monday, November 16, 2009

Many Kinds of Love


Many Kinds of Love

The word love has confused people from the beginning of time. This article is the sharing of what one person learned about it from living.
Ideally, we find Romantic love between one man and one woman. We write poetry about it. It may end beautifully or tragically. We get to know each other in order to form a lasting and mutual relationship. We can find an example of a romantic love in marriages that last even into old age. Most marriages start out with romantic love, but only the strongest are those that last. Successful marriages developed into quite a different kind of love.
Lustful love usually ends up hurting someone. It’s the one mentioned in the Bible with David and Bathsheba. David sent Uriah into full account of the battle so he would die. Lustful love is the kind that ruins lives and reputations. We find it in adultery and fornication. It cares only about sex. Now I do not want to hurt anyone. I just want to expose a very dangerous happening that we falsely called love.
Selfish love cannot be legitimate, unless it comes from the Almighty. People are not perfect enough for it and so we cannot demand it. God insists on it for Himself. He wants our whole devotion so we can live a high-quality life. You see He wants the best for us. The Bible is about His selfish love, and only He can require it. There is nothing greater than this love. If we give unselfish love to Him, we will live as Christ lived. This is probably beyond our abilities. That is why Christ died for our sins.
Friendship love is a caring love. Ideally, we find it everywhere. Found in all peaceful relationships. We find it between all kinds of people and even between people and animals. It is a special love that has no demands or conditions. We all should form one with each other. It is what Jonathan had for David, while Saul was trying to kill David in a jealous rage. We find it in the commandments and in the second greatest commandment ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ (Found in Matthew 22:37-40.)
Smothering love is the kind that demands constant attention. One will not let another have a life. We see it when one person wants to tie him self or her self to another human being and will not let them out of their sight. It seems like harassment. It comes from a very needy person, one who has not resolved issues, especially childhood abandonment and neglect. These people need professional help and prayer. Be kind but firm with them. Abuse only makes this kind of love worse. These persons have already suffered too much. Smothering love is not hopeless if the person can accept Biblical instruction and/or proper professional help.
Tough love is a love needed to bring up a child into a psychologically healthy adult. It lets child learn from his or her mistakes, and they have us as shoulders to lean on and to give them support. It is an unconditional love. It is the kind of love given by the Almighty, when we mess up. We find it in the New Testament. Jesus showed us this love by example.
Childish love is what children have for their parents. It is a needy love, but we cannot compare it with smothering love. Childish love can become independent and strong. Strength lives there that we cannot find in the other. It only needs awakened and developed through example, nurturing, and instruction, and as the child matures, he or she develops an unconditional love for others.
Unrequited love was what Christ had when He died for our sins. We find it in some broken marriages, the prodigal son or daughter, and in one-way friendship. It, like lustful love, is hurtful. Only here, we see a victim, the one who offers unconditional love and does not receive it.
Popularity love is gained with the promise that with associating with that person, you will profit. We call them fair weather friends. He or she soon disappears when life has given the love one a few hardships. Peter had this kind of love, when he denied Christ three times. Thankfully, he overcame it and developed agape love. If he had not, we would not be reading first and second Peter in the New Testament.
Godly love is a perfect love. It is the love that is willing to go so far as to give up ones' life for another. Very few people can attain such love. It is all that is good in all the other loves. Most of the disciples attained it. Others have attained it, but only God knows who all of them are.
Now, you are probably wondering who I am. Am I qualified to write about such a subject as love? I have lived a long life, worked thirty years, was a teacher and now I am a retired one. I am a sister, a wife, a friend, and a daughter. I grew up with parents whose parents abused and neglected them. Their homes became battlegrounds. Their parents passed them off to different children's homes, brought them back when they were old enough to work. The children either ran away or were locked out of their homes. I observed the result of these various kinds of love first hand in my parents’ lives and in the lives of some of the children that I have taught. I have also studied God’s love and have seen it demonstrated within religious organizations. Some split or destroy their reputation by ruining the lives of the innocent and by causing heartache and discouragement. However, some do demonstrate Godly love, by building up, bringing growth and peace, and by encouraging their members to live agape love.

What is Love


What is Love

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said ?Love all? Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But ?love? is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy. In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection. Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none. William Shakespeare.

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